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Progressive Muscle Relaxation

First This 2025-10-13

Summary

Katherine Nicolai leads a quick, full-body progressive muscle relaxation session where you tense and release each muscle group from hands to feet to face. She explains how the practice closes out incomplete stress cycles, activates the parasympathetic nervous system, and can lower blood pressure and ease chronic pain.

Key Points

  • Progressive muscle relaxation (PMR) works by deliberately tensing each muscle group for a few seconds, then releasing, which completes incomplete stress cycles stored in the body.
  • PMR activates the parasympathetic nervous system, can lower blood pressure, and ease chronic pain with regular practice.
  • Move through the body systematically: hands, arms, shoulders, feet, legs, then full body, tensing and releasing each area twice.
  • Pair each squeeze with a deep inhale and release with an exhale to amplify the relaxation response.
  • The practice takes under 10 minutes and can be done lying down at home, making it accessible for daily stress management.
  • Regular PMR builds an automatic body-scanning reflex that helps you notice and release tension throughout the day.

Key Moments

Now we are going to do a practice called progressive muscle relaxation

So natural breath, let it flow through your nose if you can, and just gently resting your mind on the feeling of breath coming in and going out, like an upturned leaf rests on the current of a river. Now we are going to do a practice called progressive muscle relaxation.

"So natural breath, let it flow through your nose if you can, and just gently resting your mind on the feeling of breath coming in and going out, like an upturned leaf rests on the current of a river. Now we are going to do a practice called progressive muscle relaxation. It does a bunch of useful things for you."

It also just feels good and you deserve to feel good

It also just feels good and you deserve to feel good. So we'll move through the body one area at a time, tensing muscles and then releasing them.

"stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system, can lower your blood pressure and ease chronic pain, among many other benefits. It also just feels good and you deserve to feel good. So we'll move through the body one area at a time, tensing muscles and then releasing them. And I find it kind of natural to add big inhales and exhales as I go, so feel free to breathe along with me. Let's start with your hands. Curl your hands into fists and squeeze."

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